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Girlfriend problem
So my girlfriend went to this leadership camp over the summer and it was a three day thing. She gets back and this guy that she met there will text her and the one last night kinda sent me over the edge. These are some of the earlier texts "goodnight cutie" and "hey baby" Ok, that doesn't seem so bad (but I still don't like it) and I ask her well does he know you have a boyfriend? She replies with "yeah I told him once." But last night she gets one last night while I'm right there "I want you all weekend" She responds with "but that will make my boyfriend sad" and he says something like "then give me one night." She looks at me and says "well what do I say?" "Tell him you have a boyfriend" because I'm thinking that he's trying to get with her and I told her that, she doesn't think so. 
How do you think I should handle this?
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07-08-2009, 10:44 AM
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Don't be a pus-say
And pics of the g/f please
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07-08-2009, 10:44 AM
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she's already gone, so try sticking it in her butt.
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07-08-2009, 10:46 AM
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arniepieinthesky has just recently lost his g/f to another dude. She's already hitting that **** man. Move on.
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07-08-2009, 10:46 AM
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07-08-2009, 10:48 AM
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So my girlfriend went to this leadership camp over the summer and it was a three day thing. She gets back and this guy that she met there will text her and the one last night kinda sent me over the edge. These are some of the earlier texts "goodnight cutie" and "hey baby" Ok, that doesn't seem so bad (but I still don't like it) and I ask her well does he know you have a boyfriend? She replies with "yeah I told him once." But last night she gets one last night while I'm right there "I want you all weekend" She responds with "but that will make my boyfriend sad" and he says something like "then give me one night." She looks at me and says "well what do I say?" "Tell him you have a boyfriend" because I'm thinking that he's trying to get with her and I told her that, she doesn't think so.
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Dude- You have to go ballistic on your girlfriend. Next time she gets one of those texts you know what to do with the phone. Show her you're a man! Stop being a poooosay about it. Chicks don't like that.
BTW- How long have you guys been together.
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07-08-2009, 10:48 AM
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suggest a threesome. Tell her she can only do it with him, if you get to do it with her while she is doing it with him.
aside from that, just break up with her, or find a girl that you can do the same things with, then she how she likes it.
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07-08-2009, 10:50 AM
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Go to rick's, hook up with skank, make sure g/f finds out about it
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07-08-2009, 10:50 AM
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Dump her before she can dump you.
Chances are those two have already hooked up.
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07-08-2009, 10:51 AM
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Demonstrate some leadership and lead her out the door. If she's not loyal enough to you to tell the dude to bugg off, then she's not loyal enough to you.
She's shown you her doubt. Show her the door.
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07-08-2009, 10:51 AM
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she's already gone, so try sticking it in her butt.
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Ever hear that phrase...
Have your cake and eat it too?
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07-08-2009, 10:51 AM
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Dude- You have to go ballistic on your girlfriend. Next time she gets one of those texts you know what to do with the phone. Show her you're a man! Stop being a poooosay about it. Chicks don't like that.
BTW- How long have you guys been together.
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Throw it in the trash....WITH AUTHORITY. 
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07-08-2009, 10:52 AM
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wait! let's think rationally here. before you dump her drop a load of man batter in her conditioner bottle.
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07-08-2009, 10:52 AM
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so you're the boyfriend......this will be easier than i thought!
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07-08-2009, 10:53 AM
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wait! let's think rationally here. before you dump her drop a load of man batter in her conditioner bottle.
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Also upper decker.
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07-08-2009, 10:54 AM
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I don't believe this story for one second. If the OP can't figure out that there's something seriously wrong with those texts (even the first ones) he needs to get his head checked.
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07-08-2009, 10:55 AM
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Dude- You have to go ballistic on your girlfriend. Next time she gets one of those texts you know what to do with the phone. Show her you're a man! Stop being a poooosay about it. Chicks don't like that.
BTW- How long have you guys been together.
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I've wanted to take the phone and call him and tell him whats up. But then she says that she may hang out with the leadership group which he is also part of this Sunday and I'm invited so I can let him know whats up in person.
4 years in October
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Let's get this straight. If you throw a fit and act like a tough guy you lose even more than you have already.
What you need to do is just tell her it's over and that is that. Be calm about it all. Let's not forget she made the decision for you.
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07-08-2009, 10:56 AM
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what is this Leadership Group? and how old are you two?
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07-08-2009, 10:57 AM
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Dump her before she can dump you.
Chances are those two have already hooked up.
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Pretty much. She's either been hooking up with this guy all weekend or flirting with him... or both. The fact that she's still carrying on with texts from him while he's acting like that is uncool.
She obviously has no respect for you, show that bitch the door.
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07-08-2009, 10:57 AM
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suggest a threesome. Tell her she can only do it with him, if you get to do it with her while she is doing it with him.
aside from that, just break up with her, or find a girl that you can do the same things with, then she how she likes it.
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That's what I was thinking.
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No you don't have a girlfriend problem at all. It appears you don't have a girlfriend anymore.
I think you need to advise her that your "relationship" is over.
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